Java (JDK 10), 126 bytes

l->l.sort(java.util.Comparator.comparing(n->(""+n).chars().mapToObj(c->10+"854-9176320".indexOf(c)+"").reduce("",(a,b)->a+b)))

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This is a naive Java implementation. Should be much golfable.

Java (JDK 10), 123 bytes

l->l.sort(java.util.Comparator.comparing(n->{var r="";for(var c:(""+n).split(""))r+=11+"54-9176320".indexOf(c);return r;}))

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This is a naive Java implementation. Should be much golfable.

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• 3 bytes saved thanks to Kevin Cruijssen