##JavaScript (ES6), <s>251</s> 256 bytes

**Edit:** *Saved 2 bytes thanks to [@dzaima][1].*  
**Edit:** *Added 7 bytes to fix issue with parameter. `:(`*

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    c=>(f=(c,w=13)=>c>0&&f(c-w,w-1)+(c=c<w?c:w,r=(n,s=' ')=>s.repeat(n),a='\n'+r(52-w*4),'  |=|  0  | |  0  | |  0 /   \\ 0.     .0|-----|0|     |0|-----|0|_____|'.split(0).map(x=>a+r((w-c)*8+2)+r(c,' '+x)).join('')+a+r(w*8+5,'#')),(c=91-c)?f(c).slice(6):':(')

Here's the (mostly) ungolfed version:

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    function (consumed) {
      let remaining = 91 - consumed;

      function inner (count, width = 13) {
        if (count <= 0) return false;

        function repeat (count, string = ' ') {
          return string.repeat(count);
        }

        const pattern = [
          '  |=|  ',
          '  | |  ',
          '  | |  ',
          ' /   \\ ',
          '.     .',
          '|-----|',
          '|     |',
          '|-----|',
          '|_____|' ];

        let clamped = Math.min(count, width);
        let alignment = '\n' + repeat((13 - width) * 4);
        let empty = alignment + repeat((width - clamped) * 8 + 2);
        let shelf = alignment + repeat((width * 8) + 5, '#');
        let bottles = pattern.map(row => empty + repeat(clamped, ' ' + row));

        return inner(count - width, width - 1) + bottles.join('') + shelf;
      }

      return (remaining) ? inner(remaining).slice(6) : ':(';
    }


###Test code

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    const golfed =

    c=>(f=(c,w=13)=>c>0&&f(c-w,w-1)+(c=c<w?c:w,r=(n,s=' ')=>s.repeat(n),a='\n'+r(52-w*4),'  |=|  0  | |  0  | |  0 /   \\ 0.     .0|-----|0|     |0|-----|0|_____|'.split(0).map(x=>a+r((w-c)*8+2)+r(c,' '+x)).join('')+a+r(w*8+5,'#')),(c=91-c)?f(c).slice(6):':(')

    console.log(golfed(91)); // :(
    console.log(golfed(72));
    //                                                          |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|
    //                                                          | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |
    //                                                          | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |
    //                                                         /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \
    //                                                        .     . .     . .     . .     . .     . .     .
    //                                                        |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----|
    //                                                        |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     |
    //                                                        |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----|
    //                                                        |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____|
    //     #####################################################################################################
    //      |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|     |=|
    //      | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |
    //      | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |
    //     /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \   /   \
    //    .     . .     . .     . .     . .     . .     . .     . .     . .     . .     . .     . .     . .     .
    //    |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----|
    //    |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     | |     |
    //    |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----| |-----|
    //    |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____| |_____|
    // #############################################################################################################

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[1]: https://codegolf.stackexchange.com/users/59183/dzaima